眼光.脸色
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
我想只要是置身尘嚣，凡有人气的地方就有政治，就有迁就和包容，就有群体和个体，而人与人的接触，接受最多的是他人的眼光和脸色。
眼光有很多种，有赞许或批评，能让你身处天堂或地狱，也可以给予鼓励或是把你一脚踩下去。它是种暗语，如果说眼光是不直接表露的，脸色就是针对性的。既言及色，则当然和色彩有关，不然也就没有“黑脸示人”，“白脸面具”，“蓝色忧郁”，green with envy 和seeing red诸如此类之说。这边的颜色值得玩味。颜色，旧指脸色、容颜，高适《燕歌行》就有“男儿本自重横行，天子非常赐颜色”，此中颜色当然有别于今时今日之“还以颜色”。给人脸色看，看人脸色，或许也是人生中的循环。
其实眼光和脸色可以很有力度，轻则影响心情、重则改变生活作习，但问题不在投射眼光、施与脸色的源头身上，而在接受这些signals的一端。可以选择淡然处之，也可以看得太重而深受其影响。正面的当然不成问题，负面的往往才考验个人境界。
这些附加物品或日常贺礼，不喜欢当然可以不理，只是不要说没有选择。把那些眼光和脸色看成表演也不错。The world's a stage. 人生的百态，看得也就更清楚。毕竟一种米养百种人。
如果真的不喜欢这一百种人，就吃面吧。
Envoy of the Stars @ 8:05 PM
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